Choices like whether you choose to respond optimistically with a smile in a situation, or whether you choose to "react" and engage yourself in the dull and gloomy chain thoughts?

well, i especially said "react" is because simply, i feel that, if we want, we CAN be happy about it. whether you choose to shout back at someone who really gets on your entire nervous system, or maybe you would like to show the person some "grace" since well, to comfort yourself, people in your life DO show some, else, much "grace" on you at one point or another.

almost all the times, you see comments in facebook that describes the sad moment of a person's life, or when people "hang their dirty laundry" publicly, or so and so.. well ,i guess, when we are "indulged" in our own set of thinking and emotions at a particular time, we tend to overlook the other spectrum of thoughts which is so beautiful and, sad to say, plunged into the state of what we like to call :"E-M-O" haha!

come to think of it, maybe even as im typing now, i also have my own "blind spot" which i missed out, which comes to think, is quite funny as it sounds like im shooting myself. hahaa.. well, mistakes helps you to grow, but dont indulge in the emotions that follows when a mistake is made.. aiyah dont know what i am talking.. work too much, too tired perhaps..