Smarties Tang

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been long since i have been on my laptop for more than an hour. because these days is work, work, and work. haha, feeling quite sad sometimes have to go off early from cny's visiting due to working commitment, but well, we cannot have the best of both worlds , so at least go visiting better than nvr~

this year's cny has been an exceptionally an enjoyable yet unique one! nvr had this kind of feeling to bring your gf to visiting together and introducing her to everyone and vice versa. haha, and due to that someone got extra angbaos lor~ her face must be grinning like this! -----> ^^

just now, it feels really good to just laze at home, watch show by stephen chow and enjoying some Mcwings! hehe. and being able to ride slowly and carefree on empty road, taking a seat at a void deck alone and to enjoy the night breeze can be quite good i guess! just that the sound of baby's wailing coming from the neighbouring blk abit spoil the atmosphere~ haha . that reminds me of last time when my baby sister is in her cradle sleeping, and if she wails in the middle of the night, my mum would drag herself up to "shake" her to sleep, if she persists, you will hear a "piak" sound to the butt and she will only wail louder. haha.

life can be enjoyable when you are doing simple things too.

hello.. happy chinese new year people!! haha i know somehow when you see the words in red, somehow, whether you like it or not, your brain will just filter off that line, somehow it works like that, at least for me. its like every festive seaso, we are so used to seeing greetings lines which repeats over the years where we like dont really "understand" the meaning of it. like ppl send you to really wish you a happy day for you but we dont think of it like that but instead see it as a norm bah..

so, i think i will wish you people a happy chinese new year, wishing that all will stay in good health, and of course collect loads of angbao~~~~ hahaha. but dont forget karma goes around so if you collect more, next time after you get married you will "bleed" more! lol.

uh not toforget its valentines day too :D:D

hmm, the nostalgic feeling is back! like cny's eve i will be kind of excited for the next day. trying to picture myself entering my grandparents house, seeing all the familiar faces after like one year, and all in a happy mood! its kind of nice to really eat together as ONE family. but sad to say my dad has to work and hes unable to join us. but maybe its good? if not cny first day imagine all happy happy ythen my mum pek che cuz my dad is there or the contrary will be my dad sit down one side keep quiet then my mum talk alot but not to my dad, as if he's invisible. well, these few days i have been thinking in my dad's shoes. i think, he's really quite sad. imagine now you are living your life to just work and work to provide for the family. yet your wife and chiildrens dont really appreciate it that much, like dont even say a simple thank you or what. and you dont really get to do things like to travel, to hangout with friends to slack, to even catch a movie, or do something that you really like. i really feel quite sad. really dont know how to go about untangling the knot. =x

hopefully someone will initiate to take a family pic tmrw at grandpa's house! :)

If a child lives with CRITICISM, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with HOSTILITY, he learns to fight.
If a child lives with RIDICULE, he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with FEAR, he learns to be apprehensive.
If a child lives with SHAME, he learns to be guilty.
If a child lives with TOLERANCE, he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with ENCOURAGEMENT, he learns to be confident.
If a child lives with ACCEPTANCE, he learns to love.
If a child lives with RECOGNITION, he learns it is good to have a goal.
If a child lives with HONESTY, he learns what truth is.
If a child lives with FAIRNESS, he learns justice.
If a child lives with SECURITY, he learns to have faith in himself and those about him.
If a child lives with FRIENDLINESS, he learns that the world is a nice place in which to live to love and be loved.

WOW! the world is actually sooooooooo small!

have i told you guys before? just a week ago, i was riding towards hg ave 10, when at the filter lane turning left, a police car were on the main traffic, travelling straight. as this car were moving not that fast, i decided to "gek kiang" abit to not give way and turn out. as usual, i parked at the pavement ahead which i always do, (because want to save on parking fee mah) i was still on the bike when in my heart, i was feeling quite a bit of unrest as i cut into the main traffic without giving way to the main road users, so i took a glance into the rear view when i see the police car earlier on were slowing down and parked by the side. this was when 4 CIDs came out.

the first thing one of the guy(lets name him officer A) asked me was :" What were you trying to do?!" he was speaking in a authorative tone. of course i know he was going to ask me about me cutting into his lane and parking illegally. the funny thing was i replied him a "HUH?" haha.

then he got me to remove my helmet and off engine, take out license show him and all. then he start to scan at my bike, asking some questions. so there they go, double-checking with me that my name is really called smarties, then telling me that they let me off and got me to park at a proper lot.

soooooooooooooooooo, this is not the main point.
just a few mins ago, i went down with quan to get some chips and coffee when on the way back, i saw a road block at the bus stop below my blk. was quite surprised because i dont see any road blocks at this area before. so again, i was quite "gek kiang", i went up to take a picture of it, thinking i can blog about it ( bo bian must make my blog more interesting with pictures if not readers all sian). then i went home and sit before the com preparing to down the packet of chips when my phone rang. it was quan.

me: hello? (puzzled what he wants cause we just part ways not long after and he called)
quan: smart ah.
quan: the tp ask you to come down cause you took his pictures
me: SERIOUS AH?!?!!??!?!?!
quan:yah
me: serious, you not joking?
quan: yah he waiting at the lift here
me: okok grab phone and wallet down

*lift reaches 1st story, door opens*

i walk out and there is the officer is green vest standing greeting me :"Hey Smarties!"
i was stunned for a moment, cause he looks like the officer A i was talking about!
so he said :"there we meet again huh, the world is sooo small"

haha i found it rather amusing because its just amusing! imagine seeing the same guy you nvr expect to see again especially you are expecting some fierce officer who would be interoggatingon why you take picture of the police. so there he is, asking about my ink, then say want take picture of me since i took pic of them! wah! really funny sia him.

then i found out he's incharge of the hougang estate thats why luh~ ask me dont get into trouble with the law if not he very easy find me~ somemore got one part he was asking whether i had a elder bro. cause he said i looked like the TCS artist.... i was hesitating whether to play along and said oh yeah adam cheng is my bro, but on second thought better not lah, if not i really can go for free coffee with them liao=x

ha! it was really a good laugh just now! hope i will bump into him again! but not for the wrong stuff of course~:D:D

seriously, i dont know what urban dictionary is up to. this is what i got when i typed my beautiful name in for its meaning:

frankly speaking if you ask me, i dont know the way to life either.
of course there are certain things which i feel CANNOT be compromised in life, or rather, it would be best if you dont do it etc, but come to think of it, does it really work that way?


for example, if your good friend betrayed you. what should you do? thinking that hey the trust is really gone because i really placed my every single hope and trust in you yet you do these kind of things to me when i trusted you so much.

OR

should you be angry and wait for all the emotions to get by and accept that nerd's apology to you and give him / her a second chance even though knowing that not the 100% trust will be there and give him/ her a chance to redeem themselves because everyone makes mistakes?

i really dont know because different people really thinks and react/respond differently. but i think to me is, say im in the same situation, if say im really sincere abt changing for the better, i would hope for my good friend to forgive me, give me another chance./ of course keeping in mind that i would have to face the consequences too, like say having to get past the "awkward" period and dont expect your good friend to confide in you every single things in the future until you really gain back the trust from them.

before i move on, i want to state that im not in the situation right now, just giving some thoughts about it and just to talk it out. what about you? if your BESTEST friend ever betray you,(something damn serious ttm one) what would you do? friendship GG? or give them a second chance like how you would want to be given a second chance too because everybody makes mistakes? what is your stand on this?