the invisible wall
Thursday, October 1, 2009 @ 5:51 PM
these days, it has been fun hanging out with the LSG. they are the people whom i know since secondary 1, may not be that close then, but i think its different now. we can talk about anything, and we are very open about certain stuffs which you never even think of sharing it with your normal friends one. and all that hanging out with them reminds me of what i read from one of my BB officer's blog. he mentioned about the "advantage" in a sense to say that even though it is difficult at first to "enter" into someone's life, it can be tough, challenging and all but at the end of the day, its worth it when you broke the invisible wall successfully and in the future under whatever circumstances you will be able to communicate even the deepest affairs of the heart without much difficulty. haha how true :)
well i have also been thinking about setting up the right values at home. especially when my sisters now are older now and they are learning all the "craps" from my parents and i very fast, and they are getting more and more witty as time goes by. i am quite conscious about how i behave at home, the way i talk, the way i handle problems like between my mum and dad, or when my mum scolds my sisters and i will observe how they react to the situation. i only step in when i feel that perhaps the way my sisters react might not be the best way out and i will try to talk to her and all.
its not easy , to bring yourself down to their level, to think like them, to be forgiving about their mistakes because i myself do it last time. but i think its very important for them to grow up with certain values that will stay with them throughout their endeavor in life next time and to build a very close-knitted brother-sisters relationship with them!
i cant wait for the time when i have to be there to "educate " them about things like clubbing,drinking,smoking, etc and all.. well still long to come..
