Friday, October 9, 2009 @ 8:29 PM
can any kind soul please advise me on what to do?
today my mum is on off, she was home the whole day. the first thing i heard when i got home was her voice, her voice at the top of her lungs scolding my maid, again. she uses quite a bad tone to scold her and she would do this every other day because sometimes my maid forgets/ dont do things the way the old maid used to do.
on one side, i pity the maid because i think its really really not easy to bear with the scoldings every other day. even sometimes early in the morning also tio gan until your father come home one. even i also can get awaken by her voice. i feel that my maid is very initiated and sometimes i try to affirm her and talk to her and let her know that my mum can be too stressed with work and still have to handle household stuffs even when she get home that explains but her temper is also quite bad one thats why =(
imagine you are at work and your boss keep scolding you and all. if it was me i would have !!!@#$ you know.... sigh.
i have tried to stand up for the maid many times but sometimes my mum say till like i always on outsider's side and she would say i like not her son always help others but i am just trying to help her see from another point of view. sigh, its not right to just see her cont scolding leh.. howhowhow?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?
help!!!!!!!!!!!!