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Friday, February 20, 2009 @ 12:32 AM

FIGURE 5

BASIC COMMUNICATION MODEL



hello guys!
hmm, i have been thinking about this model above today. this is a communication model, something which i learnt of its existence when i was in RP.

basically this model shows you what happens when two person communicate with each other.
the source, and the respondant, each has a circle around it. the circle individually represents the unique and personalized concept of one's thoughts, thinking, interpretation, and character.

while the oval in the centre makes up the shared space between the two person involved. that is the space which is shared by the two, where what i feel "gives and takes" are given.
that means both are able to share their views, thoughts, opinions in a "atmosphere" where things said can be biased at times because its a sharing of each thinking and opinion mah.

but of course, at any time when either one talks, and tries to invade the others individual space, this is where i feel is not really right bah.

haha. why am i saying all these? because i find that sometimes, when people talk to me, i feel overwelmed . that sometimes even to the extent where they try to "psycho" me, which means they try to burst the space that belongs to me and surround me with their thoughts.

ha. dont know leh. certain point of time, i feel that by right, its not right to do so. the result would be that the person would not feel respected and yeah. how we should go abt it is to try to put it in a good way, convincing so that it does not invade the individual reality one have on their own.

actually that also applies to me too sometimes i also try to psycho people . i have to take note of it too! so lets take note together and be responsible communicators! haha lol.