Thursday, November 6, 2008 @ 8:31 AM
hmm. hey readers.
this morning when i woke up, i was sitting at the sofa, stoning for a moment. and my mind, was working very fast!
very fast meaning it was filled with many thoughts, and one question came to my mind. "would it be better for one to be more direct?"
in this case, what i mean by more direct is for eg, when you feel that you need encouragement etc, you may want to blog it out, or display it on your msn nick, or you may drop a message to your good friend and let him/her know .
why i thought so is perhaps i thought this would allow communication to be more effective. sometimes you may come across this scene on a show/movie/drama, that the female lead tries to drop hints here and there, but seemingly that the hints were very obvious, the male lead didnt even get the slighest hint. and usually as we know, the interesting yet sad ending will be that the female lead gets all flared up, and decided that the guy is not the guy for her!
of course as a 旁观者we would sometimes see things where people cant see when they are undergoing the situation. but anyway, will it be good if we are more direct and dont beat around the bush?
